This blog was created to document our experience dealing with Bailey, our 16 year old daughter's stroke. Until September 15th, she was a perfectly healthy, active teenage girl. She is a junior in high school this year. She has a part time job, many friends and a busy social life. She is involved with the marching band, cross country skiing and the school theater group. Her class schedule reads like that of my nightmares - Honors classes, Advanced placement classes and even a "college in school" physics class. She has a smile that shows itself with the slightest of provocation. She is happy, easy going and a bit goofy. Generally, there was no reason to expect any health issues and definitely we would not ever have even thought a stroke was a possibility.

So, this is our story. I am hoping it will help others who experience this sort of misfortune to understand they are not alone. Maybe they are feeling the way we do and will take some comfort our story.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

It's numb but she can move it!

Today out of no where Bailey's right hand went numb. Suddenly there was no pain reaction and she couldn't feel it when I tickled the back of her hand. She freaked out and started crying. I asked her what was wrong and try as she might she just couldn't formulate a complete sentence. The more she struggled the more she cried. The more she cried,, the more she struggled. It was an ugly cycle of frustration and in the midst of it my brain started screaming SHE HAD ANOTHER STROKE! Well this was not the case. She was just working her self into a frenzy and her brain didn't know what to do.

In the middle of the panic, the tears and my feeling of helplessness I simply sat there holding the now numb hand, not knowing what to do to help. When she was finally able to calm down she turned and looked at me and squeezed my hand. It was such a natural act that I was sure I was imagining it so I asked her to do it again and she did. She squeezed my fingers so tightly that it hurt!

About an hour later the numbness subsided but the mobility did not. While she still doesn't have the power to fully extend the fingers she can close them and it is a great start.

2 comments:

  1. OMG! Bailey! Woot! I miss you guys so much! I don't have words to describe how proud I am of my resilient sister. At this rate, by time I come home again she will be able to drive to the airport to pick me up! How are the rest of the arm movements going? Updates! I need updates!

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  2. Mrs. Carlson and Bailey,
    You dont know me but I am a fellow soldier that knows your son and brother. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers. Carlson and I got the opportunity to work together for a month or so on this deployment. He is a great guy and I know that he is a wonderful son and brother. Good luck in your recovery and god bless! SPC Cora Bowen

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